Welcome to the finale of the short series “before you lose
your virginity”. This part will conclude the article. Just as we have been learning,
these are things you must know before you lose your virginity.
11. Too much of porn will only make you have
unrealistic dreams and visions about sex. The truth is your sex will never be
like what you see in porn, so forget the idea and enjoy yourself and your
partner.
12. Some people
say sex hurts them. This may be because of several reasons, lubrication being
number reason. So make sure you lubricate your vagina) before
your partner penetrates to avoid the risk of hurtful sex.
13. There is a
high chance of pregnancy when you have penile penetrative sex (through the
vaginal) even for first-timers.
14. For men, you may find it hard to keep an erection
during your first sex. This is not a disease. You may want to perform better
than porn stars but find yourself unable to reach an erection for long after
you cum. This is not uncommon and so you need to relax and take a break. If the
short erectile dysfunction persists, you may need to visit your doctor.
15. Be as comfortable as possible when you are having
sex for the first time. When you need something, ask for it and do not be shy.
Comfortable sex has proven to help both men, and women reach orgasm faster than uncomfortable
ones.
16. There is no right time to have sex. Whenever it is
ok with you, and your partner is the best time for sex. You can change your mind
midway into the act. So do not act upon anyone's advice as to the timing of
your first sex ever.
17. The hearsay that "everyone else is doing
it" is just hearsay, and it is untrue. Studies have shown that 15% of
millennials haven't had sex since they turned 18. They carried this study out in
2016. So do not let peer pressure push you into having sex.
18. There is a clear distinction between sex and
intimacy and love. If you want real and genuine love, pursue it. Having sex
with someone does not mean they genuinely love or care for you. Seek love and
intimacy, then sex can follow.
19. The sex you have for the first time does not
determine the sex you will always have. The tone is set by yourself and
your partner and the tone can change every time you have sex.
20. Sex is sweet, lovely and relaxing. You can only
enjoy it when you are having it with someone who cares about you and you care
about them.
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